Filling The Voids
Saturday, May 23rd, 2009Letting go of harmful habits and attitudes towards money and wealth may be one of the hardest parts of building wealth, but it’s not enough to just overcome and dismiss them. As you let go of the old hard habits, you have to gradually replace them with something more worthwhile.
Creating A Void
If you simply take away a bad habit or poor attitude, but do not put something in its place, you create a void. That void is like a big empty space in your life, and it needs filling. If you do not fill it what happens is there is too much
room for the old habits and attitudes to come back. You begin to feel yourself slipping and lose sight of why it was you worked so hard to break that old habit and attitude to begin with. It feels like something is missing, and, not being able to recall what was so bad about that old hindering habit, you slip easily back to old ways and old mindsets. You end up right where you started.
Better Things To Do
People will always work to fill a nagging void, but not always in a proactive or productive way. You may think you feel better in the interim, but sooner or later it will all come back to you and you will start to feel badly about what you’ve “accomplished”. The trick to overcoming your bad habits and attitudes is not to simply wipe them away, but to replace them with good, meaningful, productive and healthy habits as you do. AS you do—not after, but during the process. So, for instance, if your bad habit is overspending on needless things, when you stop yourself from doing that replace it with a habit of saving or investing in something that will actually create wealth. Or, if you are building good wealth creation habits by building the action part of it into your life, instead of just cutting out time wasters, replace them as you do with something that will work towards building wealth—a homestudy course, reading, or an hour spent choosing investment strategies.
It is hard enough to break your bad habits once, so why put yourself through that again? Replace old habits with better ones to prevent the void completely, and grow as a prosperous person as you do.
I couldn’t say it better myself, but [Name Withheld] can! See his video on empowering habits here.
Sean Rasmussen
Success Communicator
Aussie Internet Marketer © 2004 – 2009
Empowering habits—these are habits that are for our own good—good habits that are of benefit to us.


